"This book -- like the child care centers on which it is based -- is fun, funny, playful, and a great place to learn. What I like best is Jeff's and Denita's insight that little kids are in many ways like us bigger kids. They hate advice or help that they didn't ask for and don't need; they hate to be micromanaged; they love to make their own discoveries and solve their own problems; they are a lot more competent than most people think they are; and they learn best when they can chart their own learning paths. I recommend this book not just to early childhood professionals, but to all new parents as well. It will help you enjoy your kids, rather than worry about them."
- Peter Gray, Research Professor, Department of Psychology, Boston College